Thirty, Flirty and Thriving

Well not quite flirty but I just turned thirty and it's going to be a great year because I have a list of 30 awesome things to accomplish. Throughout the year I will be updating this blog as I accomplish each item on my list.

Sunday, January 27, 2013

12. Sign Up for Online Dating

I mentioned before that several of the people who made suggestions for my list suggested that I include “get married” but seen how everything on my list is within my control (except for one that involves having everyone in my family together, but I am sure they will do that for me) that ‘goal’ is not on my list of 30 things to do while I am 30. Although, I would be ok if it did happen (7 months should be enough time, rightJ). Similarly, everyone (I am pretty sure it was everyone) suggested I sign up for online dating, citing that it’s what people do in this technological age.

Before I start sharing my experience, I have a confession to make ... this was actually the first thing I checked off my list. I knew it would take me awhile to warm up to the idea so I first signed up using my sisters Zip code so I would show up as living in Provo and just explore for a bit. A while later I added a picture, then I changed my location to Edmonton. I then signed up for a 3 month paid subscription which has now has ended. Much to the disappointment of my parents, it didn’t work out for me.  I received and sent a few messages and ‘smiles’, made a facebook friend and ignored the guys in their 40s, 50’s and 60’s (which was the majority of the men who contacted me).

I prefer traditional dating so I hope that works out for me.

At least I tried, right. J

Thursday, January 10, 2013

11. Find A New Ancestor!


On January 1, 1999 I began researching my family history which was both a New Year's resolution and what I choose to do for my Young Women's in Excellence project. It is a goal that has become part of me and who I am  - The Family Genealogist - and I love it! I love researching my own family history and the opportunities I have had to help others.

I started with very little information but as I talked with family members, some for the first time, I had enough information to start researching records. I was able to find quite a bit of information relatively quickly and over the past 14 years I have been able to accumulate 20,846 names of people I am related to. I have also had the opportunity to visit several grave sites, streets, towns and villages where my ancestors have lived in England, Scotland and Southern Manitoba. Now I just need to go to Germany, and the old German-Russian parts of Poland, Russia and Ukraine.

More recently I have had more success with finding individuals distantly related to me through descendency research and connecting with other distant relatives via the Internet. While putting together my list of 30 things I included "find a new ancestor", meaning a Great-something grandparent, because although I have hit many brick walls I was confident that I could break one down somewhere.

As the New Year started and I reflected on past New Year's resolutions and goals this one was brought to mind as well as the goal I had included on my list and decided to get to work. I know that the Family Search site continues to add more records as they are indexed so I decided to start by going through each ancestor on My Family Tree and see if I could connect them to any other records. I stopped at a set of 7th Great Grandparents, William Clacy and Ann Alright whose marriage record I had found last year; which took place on February 7, 1704 in Wokingham, Berkshire, England. Looking at Ann Alright I could see that another user had added her parents as Thomas and Elizabeth Alright from Arborfield. However, it seemed to me in looking at their children that there was actually two families that had been combined. Not that it would be impossible for them to have 15 children or two or more with the same name but it would be to have children a few months apart. Although, sometimes babies were baptized later as children, I didn't think it likely in this case.

I then spent several hours searching baptismal, marriage and burial records of Alrights, Allrights, Alwrights, and Allwrights in the county of Berkshire in that time period and sorting them into families. I found that there was indeed two families of Thomas and Elizabeth Alrights, both living in Arborfield, infact most of the Alright's and variations were found in the village of Arborfield. The Arborfield local History website also lists the family name as one of the most common in the village; check out the Allright page for some interesting information on the family. It was neat seeing the names of the various villages in Berkshire as I have been there. I went to England in 2001 and visited the nearby village of Binfield where several generations of my Johnson ancestors lived.

Back to my research, both families of Thomas and Elizabeth Alrights had an Ann and in order to determine which one was mine I made what I will call an educated guess ... was Elizabeth in her early 40s when her last child was born or mid 50s? I'll say that Ann Alright, the wife of William Clacy was baptized January 7, 1682 in Arborfield.

Through the Berkshire records I searched I was also able to find the parents of Thomas Alright/Alwright.  Francis Alwright and Mary Turville and the Fathers of both Francis and Mary, James Alright and Richard Turville. I have now added over 100 years and six ancestors to this branch of my family tree!